We don't know he didn't get the video from her. She was his girlfriend previous to this or during. We have no idea that she didn't send it to him to hurt him. So I don't know why you're asking if he's kidding. We're all talking hypotheticals here because we don't know. You're also calling her a victim when we don't know whether that's the case or not other than by receiving the video. She said she "froze" when she was raped. I haven't seen any indication that she was incapacitated. If that were the case (e.g. that we knew she was drunk or unconscious) this wouldn't be a conversation. I've also seen no indication that "one of the boys" sent it to him, but feel free to post a link. The video was all over the school. He received it in 2016 along with the rest of the school, is how I understood it. Maybe one of the boys sent it to him to taunt him. *shrug*