BigRedBuster
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Thanks for the sharing the story. That's really interesting.
My wife's brother is definitely one of those people that is amazed at the concept that someone may not want a gun on them at all times. This is also the kind of guy that has a full 24/7 security view of his house, an automated in-home security system with voice command lock doors and even ballistic windows. A couple of months ago, some random stranger parked in his driveway for five minutes and it caused him to arm/lock his house and sit at his window with his gun drawn the whole time. He shared the story countless times in the following weeks, including several minutes of the video, to anyone who would listen.
Every time he told the story all I could think was "dude... some random person probably was Google mapping something in your driveway and here you are preparing for a home invasion." It's just a sort of doomsday mentality that I don't understand, but it's similar in many ways to how your friend's wife feels, I think.
It's hypocritical behavior no matter what side of the fence one is on. My brother-in-law would be liable to physically fight anyone who told him he doesn't need a gun, but telling other people they need guns is acceptable.
Well, this goes farther than just friends or family.
About a year ago, I had an employee (management) come to me expressing his desire to change our gun policy at work. Currently, we have a zero gun policy in the work place. Well, his belief was that we should have more people at work with conceal carry permits and allow them to carry at work. He would be one of these people.
My first reaction was, "HELL NO". But, I didn't say anything and said I would think about it. He then went on to say that we have many truck drivers that come in who conceal carry. He expressed that our current policy requires them to unholster their guns and leave them in the truck. This is potentially unsafe because it requires them to handle their guns.
I'm sitting here in disbelief with what I'm hearing. He is literally saying we should allow these people to carry their guns into the work place....when it's clearly unsafe for them to unholster their guns in private.
I stuck with the "HELL NO"....but, I expressed my opinion much more judiciously than that. I'm sure he is still unhappy that I won't let him carry a gun.