When comparing Apple to Android phones...
iPhone is the average phone user's dream. It's user-friendly, doesn't crash, has a lot of great apps and will do everything you need it to do quite well.
Android, conversely, isn't the most user-friendly, is known to crash, has even more great apps and does everything you need it to do quite well.
Now, for the gritty parts. I have an Incredible 2, and I will
never buy an iPhone. For starters, what you're paying for is extremely overpriced. The CPU that powers the iPhone has been inside Androids for years and has even been surpassed by some phones, yet Apple prices like it's new and talks about it like it's some great thing, which it isn't. Siri, although useful, isn't even a great voice-recognition program, as evidenced by this class-action lawsuit
http://articles.lati...awsuit-20120328
The iPhone, like all Apple products, are not worth the money you spend for them - at all. The iPhone is also nowhere near as cuztomizable as the Android can be, and there are significantly more ways to tweak and work with an Android phone. The Android, more-or-less, is the tech-savvy person's dreams.
It's like comparing Mac to PC users, in a way. The PC, in terms of pricing and performance, destroys what Macs can do. However, Macs are very reliable and extremely user-friendly. And, although they can still get viruses no matter what a Mac user tells you, they're far less prone to them.
In the end, it comes down to your personality. Are you tech-savvy? Do you want to be able to do crazy things with your phone? Do you want to get more bang for your buck? Get an Android.
Do you like user-friendly, simplistic technology, despite the overpriced value? Get an iPhone.