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Something really big, usually my head.

Always my heart.  

why not both?

What is a heart?

Strive for "wisemind" https://www.dbtselfhelp.com/html/mind_states.html

If you follow one or the other, things get messy. 

Actually, when it comes to major decisions, I will listen to both sides, head and heart.  I'm not a total cyborg.

I follow my heart. Depends on the situation sometimes but I tend to think my gut and heart usually win out over logic. 

I think most major decisions are best made logically, but you have to weigh the emotional factor within that decision. Kids throw a wrench into that where I think you do about anything for them, if it makes logic sense or not.

You have an emotional side and a logical side about you.  Both have to be weighed when making important decisions.

Heart or mind pffft. I ask the magic 8 ball.

@Comfortably Numb my sources say no 

You can’t overly rely on either because both are influenced by the other. My advice is to look at the Longview and then talk to the most unbiased friend or confidant you have.  The heart and mind can work together but if they’re truly conflicting, you probably don’t want to do the smart thing and are trying to rationalize the easy or impulsive thing  

Yes.

I try to leave my heart out of it...but, that's impossible.

So, I will always gather as much information as possible to look at hard cold facts with the least amount of emotion in it.  Then, once I have decided what direction the facts tell me to go, I try to ask myself if my heart agrees.

When in doubt, go with the facts.

Last time I followed my heart on an important decision I opened up a CD store when mp3s were starting to get popular.

I think I'm going to see if I can open up a Blockbuster Video franchise.  I am sure @Moiraine will think that is a great business idea.

Do it.

I like to think I am a heart person, but as I have gotten older and have a family now, I try to think as logically as I can...the sometimes conflict, but overall, logic will win out!

Heart.

Used my head when selecting the current job over the other job offer I had.  Made.  The.  Absolute.  Worst.  Wrong.  Decision.  EVER.  Still paying for it, and i may be permanently broken because of it.  So, i used my head, but next time I'll know better.  

Edit:  Or, maybe I'll still use my head, BUT - whatever my head decides, I'll do the complete opposite.