I just added Ben & a couple of the other newer mods to the list yesterday, so that would explain why it seemed to happen all of a sudden. I would hope that once your spam filter gets familiar with your patterns, it will get better at filtering. at least thats how gmail works.
Either way, I'd be happy to remove anyone from the list that would like. no hard feelings at all - the last thing I want to do is take up more of your guys' valuable time. so please feel free to let me know and I'll pull your card, like EZE.