Jen is a Christian in the truest sense of the word. Anyone can co-opt that label for themselves and whatever their ideology is, but her only ethic in all of this has been loving God and loving people. She, along with others, are why many of us have disassociated ourselves from evangelicalism, fundamentalism, and reformed theology alltogether.
If you guys are interested in more voices like hers, I'd recommend Johnathan Martin, The Liturgists podcasts (Michael Gungor and Science Mike), and Rachel Held Evans.
Michael Gungor - we watched him 'grow up ' here in Tulsa. His early days as a musician in his dad's church and launching out on his own. Here is a good
article that links Gungor to the issues we are talking about - The Essentials.
https://relevantmagazine.com/current/why-are-people-so-upset-about-what-gungor-said
I like this ending to the article.
In the Essentials, Unity. In Non-Essentials, Liberty. And in All Things, Charity.
Too often, many Christians have a tendency to vehemently attack anything that might challenge their thinking at all.
I spend a lot of time teaching my freshmen students about the “essentials” and “non-essentials” of the Christian faith. What is essential? Those things directly related to our relationship with our Creator, the one in whom we “live, move, and have our being” (Acts 17:28).
Simply put, the beliefs and understandings that directly affect our salvation are the essentials (Jesus, His divinity, His death and Resurrection for the forgiveness of our sins, our ability to be in relationship with God through His Son and Spirit and how our life should be lived as taught by the Bible etc.).
The non-essentials, well, they are everything else. They are the things not directly related to our salvation (and, no, literal young earth Creationism and the flood account do not affect our salvation).
I use this analogy often, as Christians we tend to act like we have a belief system that is like a bubble: It is fragile and easily popped if anything even touches any part of it. We think we have to protect our bubble.
But when did the Christian faith become so fragile? It is OK to ask the tough questions, to question our beliefs to find them to be true (and if not true to find the truth God is revealing to us).
Instead of a bubble, our beliefs should be like a Jenga tower that is built on a solid foundation (that of Jesus Christ and the “essentials” of the Christian faith). It should be malleable, able to be corrected, able to be taught, able to be taken apart, examined and built once more back on that foundation.
Therefore we should strive for unity in the essential parts of faith, give some wiggle room in the non-essentials, and most of all, be willing to give a lot of grace for those we disagree with.