It's a gray area until the NCAA decides to take action. This is the NCAA - are you people actually expecting them to act rationally? If so... what color are the skies in your world?
Nebraska, if you don't already know, is on probation right now. Another violation makes us a repeat offender. Do you really want to be the guy who puts us there? Do you really want to leave that decision in the hands of the NCAA?
Just knock it off. Leave the kid alone and let him make his decision.
I don't care how "normal" you think this is right now. 10 years from now, accepted mode of communication or not, you're going to look back on this and be embarrassed.
what is the rule exactly? it seems awfully broad. so anyone who talks to a recruit about going anywhere becomes a booster and violates this rule? what about recruits talking to each other?
this is only creepy if it is unilateral communication, then i would say it is harassment. but if they are conversing, what is wrong with that?
let the ncaa make this an issue. i would love to see that.