He has made poor decisions at least 3 times.
He snuck out the back door and did not face the consequences of his actions.
He should have walked out the front door, admitted he had a problem and would do his best to make things right.
To me that is an epic fail.
You can make mistakes, maybe not three, but owning up to them and facing them are just as important.
I realize he is ashamed of what he has done, but he should be. We support our coaches, as we should, and he does owe us an explanation for his actions.
I will stand by what Coach Riley does, but I truly feel he should be fired and it should happen immediately. 3 times being caught driving under the influence is 3 too many. And it would suggest he is very unlucky and caught every time, or there are a whole lot more times that he lucked out.
I am so tired of everyone having to have an excuse for their actions. I have never seen a bottle, or glass grab anyone and wrestle them to the ground forcing themselves on the individual. You choose to take the drink, the drug, pull the trigger, what ever. Mommy spanking you too much, daddy calling you names or the bully down the street did not do it. You did. Take responsibility, don't sneak out the back door. Own your actions.
If he is not fired, we will catch a little hell over it, but it is not that big of a story.
As to experience on this matter, grew up with alcoholic parents and two step fathers that were.
Lost my little brother to a drunk driver, that spent a whole three days in jail. I have very definite feelings about drinking and driving