I feel differently - it's a big decision, and having a parent's support is essential to making the right one. There is a reason many families want their kids to at least try to see if there is a fit outside of CA. I didn't read it as "I want him to give NE a look" but read it as "he needs to slow down, check out all his options and then make a decision".
For some it truly is a family decision. Don't parents all want the best life for their kid? Some may have to guide them a bit - an 18 year old has trouble seeing the big picture sometimes. The kid needs to truly appreciate the recruiting experience. It's an opportunity to see the world in a sense, and shutting it down so early before seeing anything but the schools down the street isn't optimal. And guess what? Some parents want to try and avoid having their kid being the one that flips every time a new school offers, or after he visits another for a fall game.
Opting not to commit before your senior year is a decision I respect a great deal.