You keep trying to turn the pro-life movement into an indictment on women and their ability to make a decision. It's a savvy political move, but it's also bulls#!t. It has much less ( not at all) to do with women and their decision making, and everything to do with saving an innocent life that, as of right now, has no say in whether they live or die. More times than not (by some margin) you get pregnant because of a decision that YOU (man and woman) made. With decisions come responsibility.
It's interesting that you speak to the possible inconvenience a child may bring to a woman for the rest of her life, and how she should be able to avoid that inconvenience at all cost, even if she's already conceived. So, I'd assume that you're in support of a father who chooses not to be a father, even if the woman chooses to have the child? Didn't think so. The father is inconvenienced, at the mother's will.... And in no way am I advocating for dead beat father's,just pointing out the obvious hypocrisy here, that you'll no doubt explain away, or completely ignore.
In more detail:
- anti-choice has
everything to do with women and their decision-making. In particular, it's about removing it. This is not difficult to see, and we should all be honest about what we're trying to accomplish.
- having sex is not a decision to become pregnant. I suspect we simply don't share the same moralistic view of recreational sex.
- not all people have the knowledge, or the resources, to use effective means of avoiding pregnancy. I suspect (or hope) we have the same views on improving this situation with the use of efforts both private and especially public.
- even on top of that, there are a million different reasons a pregnancy can happen anyway. you, nor I, are in the shoes of the women placed in each of those situations. If we were, we may choose differently. We may consider it not even a choice. But I believe it's not for us to say, for them.
- given this, it is to me wholly monstrous to say what is in effect "since you conceived, you've brought this on yourself, unless you were raped."
I've already taken exception to the minimizing language often used in this debate to describe the woman's situation. A pregnancy is no mere inconvenience, it's enormous, life-changing, and risky. What galls me most about this language is the way it casually casts aspersions on the woman's motivations, in a way that I don't think is necessarily conscious to the people who use it. How could she, this vile witch, treat such a precious thing as a potential life as just a bother? How dare she not, for the sake of society at least, shoulder the minor burden and just go through with it?
To this: "So, I'd assume that you're in support of a father who chooses not to be a father, even if the woman chooses to have the child?"
If you mean a man who chooses not to be around as the father, then of course. That's not something that ought to be forbidden by law, nor is it even up for discussion. If you mean a father being able to compel a woman to go through with an abortion, then the answer is, obviously, no -- because it's not his body. The contours of this debate might be very, very different if all babies were incubated in external machines, but this is not the case.