I don't think anyone is acting like they are the same thing, but when words are overused it takes away the power of their meaning.
This is true, but also inevitable. It applies to over-labeling right-wing figures as white supremacists as much as it applies to commentators calling teams or players 'great' or 'elite' in sports, as much as it applies to conservatives whining about snowflakes and safe spaces.
But just in case the reason for this current side tangent isn't clear to anyone, here's how it happened:
1. Libs of TikTok draws attention to a PRIDE/drag queen event in North Carolina
2. The mayor of that town cancels the event after "feedback received from citizens", including plenty of hate/harassment/threats.
3. Dave Reilly, who lives in Idaho, who marched in Charlottesville, has tweeted things like “All Jews are dangerous” and "Example #109 of why suffrage was a mistake:", and has organized with Identity Evropa (an unapologetic Neo-Nazi group), saw this and then asked Libs of TikTok to "do this one next!", linking to an upcoming PRIDE event in whatever french name town idaho. This was June 2.
4. The Idaho Tribune, which is...generously speaking not a real news organization, tweets about the event. "They" whoever they are (they often amplify Dave Reilly's content, and are based in the town the event is happening in). This was June 6.
5. There's good reason to suspect that David Reilly's website and the Idaho Tribune website are owned by the same person.
6. One day later, Libs of TikTok (the owner of which lives in New York) starts posting about the Idaho PRIDE event.
7. Two days later, Libs of TikTok shares Idaho Tribune screenshots.
8. 31 members of the Patriot Front white supremacist group are arrested in the back of a UHaul on their way to the Idaho PRIDE event.
9.
@Archy1221 comes in and claims that some people are calling Libs of TikTok lady a white supremacist
because she reposts videos, despite the fact that nobody actually called her a white supremacist, and if they did it's clearly not because she reposts videos.