Whats the best way for me to meet chicks?

I'm going to assume that you are pretty desperate based on the fact that you signed up for match.com and asked for women advice on a sports message board, so you probably

1. come across as really desperate in conversation with women, which is far from attractive

2. get really intimidated when approaching women

Luckily, I know of a couple of books that will help you out. Read "The Game" by Neil Strauss, "Rules of the Game" by Neil Strauss, "How to Meet and Attract Women" by Wayne Elise and you could even try "Double Your Dating" by David DeAngelo.

Basically, these books focus on the interaction with women, what to do, what not to do, confidence, body language. Plenty of info in there and highly recommend them if you're looking to improve your game.

 
nuance said:
That is, if you don’t mind a sloppy drunk chick in your bed.
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Hell NO bro. I never take a new chick to my house. It is always her bed that we go to. This way I can leave in the morning and not get a phone number and she can't stalk me if she knows where my house is.

Last month I picked this chick up and she told me at-least 8 different times that night that I wasn't getting anything from her. Needless to say, I left her house at 9am with a smile on my face.

Being 21, I hope your not looking for a relationship. Your to damned young and just able to experience the bar scene. Take a couple years and enjoy it. Use them up, there are plenty around and if they are being used, that is what they are wanting anyway.

If you are determined to get into a relationship, get a chick that is older then 23. By that time they usually have decided if they are tired of the slutty life style of still want to be one. This way you basically have her ready to settle down without the headaches.

 
UGAHusker said:
1. Be as attractive as possible (gym, haircut, shower, etc.)

2. Don't talk about weird stuff

3. Don't drive a stupid car

4. Don't dress like an idiot

5. Be witty

6.Yes, go to bars.

7. Don't ask guys on message boards about the best way to meet chicks
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Damned good advice.

 
GSG5545 said:
Po Belini said:
HSKRNOKC said:
UGAHusker said:
1. Be as attractive as possible (gym, haircut, shower, etc.)

2. Don't talk about weird stuff

3. Don't drive a stupid car

4. Don't dress like an idiot

5. Be witty

6.Yes, go to bars.

7. Don't ask guys on message boards about the best way to meet chicks
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Damned good advice.
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Don't date superficial girls
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Bingo! But do bang them whenever possible!
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sh#t dude, if a girl cares about what kind of car I drive, she can kiss my left nut. I like to wear t-shirts and jeans bc they are comfortable for me, if a girl won't date me bc of that they can kiss my right nut. And if a girl won't date me bc I don't spike my hair and look like some douche from the Jersey Shore, she can suck my d!(k! Wait...suck my right nut...suck my left nut...suck my d!(k...those don't sound too bad when I think about it :LOLtartar Shawn Watson approves this message

 
UGAHusker said:
1. Be as attractive as possible (gym, haircut, shower, etc.)

2. Don't talk about weird stuff

3. Don't drive a stupid car

4. Don't dress like an idiot

5. Be witty

6.Yes, go to bars.

7. Don't ask guys on message boards about the best way to meet chicks
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Murphy's Law, you will meet the woman of your dreams when you are least ready to do so....

 
AR Husker Fan said:
Hmmmm...never gave it much thought. Just always seemed to work out for me.

Licks eyebrows...
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I can see it now...

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Back to topic. I've always noticed that the guys who have the most trouble give the wrong signals.

Imagine how you want an attractive girl to act towards you - first and foremost, you want her to notice you. You want her to make eye contact, be smiling, and then keep making eye contact.

Now look at how you treat the women you're attracted to. Are you doing that kind of thing towards the women you like?

A lot of shy guys will avoid even basic things like eye contact, smiling, etc. What would you think about a women who doesn't make eye contact or smile at you? That she's not interested. The women out there will think the same thing about you.

Can't remember the movie - something from the late 80's or something - but there was this character who would smile, make eye contact, and say a simple hi to every attractive woman he saw.

Its a good start. Just don't leer. Maybe she'll even smile back.

 
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