1. Gingrich was charged with 84 ethics violations. He admitted to 1 and the rest were dismissed. Subsequently, he resigned. Those are the facts. If you draw different conclusions from those facts than I do, fine.
2. He did leave his cancer stricken wife while she was in the hospital. He had an affair before, during, and after her uterine cancer surgery.
3. The hypocrisy is what bothers me. This shouldn't be a difficult concept. It's not the fact that Gingrich cheated on his first two wives and traded each in for a younger model. It's the fact that he is a leading representative of a party that desperately tries to portray itself as being family and morality first. I don't know how I can make this more clear but I am willing to try if my point is not coming through.
4. Again, trying to tie it to Clinton and Kennedy. What did Gingrich have to say about Clinton? How exactly do those statements line up with his own actions? If that doesn't bother you then you must have an insanely high tolerance for hypocrisy and partisanship.
This'll have to be my last round because I've got a lot to get done today and not much time to do it.
1. This is correct. Your initial sentence made no reference to the fact that 83 were only allegations which were dismissed, meaning he resigned over one ethics violation. Although it should be noted his actual resignation was caused by other factors as well. For the violation he payed a $300,000 fine.
2. The article I linked you to presents a different story. Mrs. Gingrich did not actually have cancer in 1980. His affair took place before she was in the hospital. He did not go to the hospital with the intent of divorcing her, and his daughter has repudiated the legendary accounts told by others not in the room. Even Mrs. Gingrich now refuses to be interviewed because she feels her words were misconstrued. My advice for Gingrich opponents is to let this one go. All Gingrich has to do is point out the series of factual errors in the story and it loses its legs. His behavior generally is a fair topic, but the dishonest way this story is portrayed is for me distasteful.
3. We can agree here, as well. For me this simply isn't an issue. Gingrich is at this time a happily married man who converted to Catholicism and is very blunt and open about the mistakes he made in his past. For me, that's sufficient. I can't control what Republicans believe or don't believe about their family values platform. I don't care that Clinton had an affair or that Kennedy probably had a string of them. Again, not an issue. I can only speak for myself on that. Gingrich himself has very little to say about family values (unless he's opposing his own party and the tea party by refusing to destroy families through mass deportation).
4. Hypocrisy and partisanship are synonyms for politics. I have yet to see a politician who doesn't exhibit these characteristics at one point or another. If you want to go down the he-said/she-said road, pick any politician and listen to them talk for a sustained period of time. Frankly I'm more interested in discussions about substantive issues about social policies that will actually affect me. Some other time I can give you a list of things that bother me about Gingrich if you like.
Have a good one.