Avery Moss - updates - 1/9 **readmission denied**

[HuskerinSunDiego]

I'd be interested in hearing the exact logistics of this. It sounds as though there's some confusion by the players as to if following everything laid out for him meant he got an appeal or got reinstated to the university.

Where did this myth of rules being "laid out" for him come from? The university is not going to give rules to someone who has been expelled. And what would those rules be? "Avery, if you see a girl that catches your fancy, keep your ballpark frank parked indoors." Please. This is ridiculous.

 

[sho]

I'd be interested in hearing the exact logistics of this. It sounds as though there's some confusion by the players as to if following everything laid out for him meant he got an appeal or got reinstated to the university.

Where did this myth of rules being "laid out" for him come from? The university is not going to give rules to someone who has been expelled. And what would those rules be? "Avery, if you see a girl that catches your fancy, keep your ballpark frank parked indoors." Please. This is ridiculous.

He was to complete counseling, keep out of the legal blotter, be an upstanding citizen etc. There were some criteria that he had to meet to ensure he would have a good chance of being re-admitted. He did those things, and the new person in charge still felt he was too big of a risk.

 

[Elf]

If a (decent to good looking) girl whipped her cooter out in the same situation, I bet there'd have been no problem, for obvious reasons.

#sexdiscrimination

If you filed a complaint about it their would be.

Maybe, maybe not.

Society tends to not take males seriously in cases of sexual harassment/assault.

At a previous job I was getting unwanted sexual advances. I reported it repeatedly and nothing was done. Nothing. And this was at a major U.S. corporation.

 

[StPaulHusker]

If a (decent to good looking) girl whipped her cooter out in the same situation, I bet there'd have been no problem, for obvious reasons.

#sexdiscrimination

If you filed a complaint about it their would be.

Maybe, maybe not.

Society tends to not take males seriously in cases of sexual harassment/assault.

At a previous job I was getting unwanted sexual advances. I reported it repeatedly and nothing was done. Nothing. And this was at a major U.S. corporation.

Did you sue the company? The offending party? Did you report it to legal authorities?

 

[HuskerShark]

That was a mostly tongue-in-cheek comment, but it probably is pretty true. Unless he shoved it in her face or forced himself on her or something, I guess I don't see it as such a big deal like some others do.

 

[StPaulHusker]

And lets not forget one important thing here. He was just able to apply for reinstatement last Friday. They gave him an answer in 5 business days. That's a good turn around on something like this.

 

[C N Red]

Appears last year, Avery talked to the Title IX investigator, who laid out what he needed to do and if he completed that, she all but assured him he would be allowed back as a student. She retired in July I believe, and the new Title IX investigator didn't think allowing Avery Moss to be a student again was a good idea for now. So, while Avery did everything that was asked, it appears the new investigator still felt he was too much of a risk to allow back as a student. Hence being denied. I'm sure the fallout of Jameis and what's happening in Eugene has an impact on Avery's decision.

If this is true, that's Busch League. I could see the University having suit filed against it by Moss if that's the case. However, I have a feeling he will just go to ASU, flourish, play in the NFL, and become a fine and upstanding member of society. But many of you will judge him for letting a girl see his weiner. Not touching her with it or threatening her with it, just being stupid and flashing it. Many of you will let it cloud your opinion of him forever without ever even meeting or knowing him. Guess I don't see him as a devil as some of you seem to, but a stupid college kid who is learning the VERY hard way. Wish him luck and I will be rooting for him.

 

[Mavric]

And lets not forget one important thing here. He was just able to apply for reinstatement last Friday. They gave him an answer in 5 business days. That's a good turn around on something like this.

Did you see that recently? I thought I remembered from last year that he was eligible to apply in December.

 

[Elf]

If a (decent to good looking) girl whipped her cooter out in the same situation, I bet there'd have been no problem, for obvious reasons.

#sexdiscrimination

If you filed a complaint about it their would be.

Maybe, maybe not.

Society tends to not take males seriously in cases of sexual harassment/assault.

At a previous job I was getting unwanted sexual advances. I reported it repeatedly and nothing was done. Nothing. And this was at a major U.S. corporation.

Did you sue the company? The offending party? Did you report it to legal authorities?

I'm one man. It's my word against theirs.

 

[StPaulHusker]

And lets not forget one important thing here. He was just able to apply for reinstatement last Friday. They gave him an answer in 5 business days. That's a good turn around on something like this.

Did you see that recently? I thought I remembered from last year that he was eligible to apply in December.

He may have been eligible to apply for reinstatement in December but it wasn't done until last Friday, according to this..

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@Blackshirt4eva I get that. He appealed last Friday, time was limited. Still need to find a way to move quicker.

— Erin Sorensen (@erinsorensen) January 9, 2015

 

[Bowfin]

But many of you will judge him for letting a girl see his weiner.

Is that you, Creed?

 

[StPaulHusker]

If a (decent to good looking) girl whipped her cooter out in the same situation, I bet there'd have been no problem, for obvious reasons.

#sexdiscrimination

If you filed a complaint about it their would be.

Maybe, maybe not.

Society tends to not take males seriously in cases of sexual harassment/assault.

At a previous job I was getting unwanted sexual advances. I reported it repeatedly and nothing was done. Nothing. And this was at a major U.S. corporation.

Did you sue the company? The offending party? Did you report it to legal authorities?

I'm one man. It's my word against theirs.

 

[sd'sker]

If this is true, that's Busch League. I could see the University having suit filed against it by Moss if that's the case. However, I have a feeling he will just go to ASU, flourish, play in the NFL, and become a fine and upstanding member of society. But many of you will judge him for letting a girl see his weiner. Not touching her with it or threatening her with it, just being stupid and flashing it. Many of you will let it cloud your opinion of him forever without ever even meeting or knowing him. Guess I don't see him as a devil as some of you seem to, but a stupid college kid who is learning the VERY hard way. Wish him luck and I will be rooting for him.

on what grounds?

and as for the rest of it, i think we all think this is unfortunate all around. moss does seem like a good person who made a mistake and now there are consequences. that happens. that does not mean we will judge him and think less of him, just that we understand that transgressions have consequences and nothing is guaranteed.

i am impressed with what he has done and how he has handled this. it really is too bad it worked out this way. but it has. he put himself in this position and has to continue to deal with it. at least he now knows and can move on, which it sounds like he is.

 

[StPaulHusker]

Appears last year, Avery talked to the Title IX investigator, who laid out what he needed to do and if he completed that, she all but assured him he would be allowed back as a student. She retired in July I believe, and the new Title IX investigator didn't think allowing Avery Moss to be a student again was a good idea for now. So, while Avery did everything that was asked, it appears the new investigator still felt he was too much of a risk to allow back as a student. Hence being denied. I'm sure the fallout of Jameis and what's happening in Eugene has an impact on Avery's decision.

You need to do better than "appears". You need to make facts appear that you know this for sure.

 

[Bowfin]

Why does everyone assume this is some sick perverted thing that he did

Because it was...

...and just because you were witness, part of, or know of an instance that was greater than or equal to this perversion doesn't diminish it.

If Moss would have done that to my wife or female relations, he would have been told "Either put it away or it's going to be wearing this steaming hot cup of coffee, your choice."

That's not judging a person, that is judging what he did. Society doesn't seem to be able to separate the two these days.