I just watched TV commercial. Supposedly "Blackpeoplemeet.com" (TV commercial) is not racial but if there was a Whitepeoplemeet.com it would be racist? Also joined by congressional black caucus, BET channel, black awards, ebony mag, black college fund, NAACP, etc., etc.,
Double standard here?
Discuss .......
meh, it's really not something worth getting worked up about. Many of the things you mentioned were started at a time when Blacks couldn't participate in the "white" versions of things either because of de jure discrimination like Jim Crow or de facto discrimination.
Let's look at what you mentioned:
CBC: 1971
Ebony: 1945
United Negro College Fund: 1944
BET: 1980
The best example of this is with HBCU's. Is the idea of a university for students of only one ethnic group racist? Maybe. But HBCUs still exist and it's understandable given their history...but if you look at the state of HBCU's today they're dying off as many of the good black students that used to choose to attend them are going to larger integrated schools. I think that will eventually happen with most of the things you listed.
Is it a double standard? I don't know. A lot of dating sites, a lot of everything really, are effectively white-only or dominated by whites. Some places make it clear that whites are the only accepted group in almost every way short of putting up a Jim-Crow era sign. In a country with residual de facto discrimination/segregation I think it's worthwhile to have spaces for minorities to do their own thing but it doesn't matter what I think. These are private enterprises and they can do what they like.
The only race issue that annoys me are race preferences in government jobs/universities.