Why is it sad? Tell me why you think so.
Because we are adults. In Pelini's case at least, an adult who is extremely well compensated for a very public job.
His behavior reflects poorly on the university and on Nebraska fans everywhere. You can support him as a coach while still admitting that he needs to grow the @#$@ up.
I was just curious as to why. I've said it other places, but just because you are paid millions of dollars to do something doesn't automatically make you an expert in doing that thing.
Obviously, you are paid millions of dollars because you are believed to be able to do a thing (aka coaching and winning). I admit that Bo has some growing up to do.
I think we should look at the "public" bit as to why the fans don't appreciate what Bo did on the sideline vs. Iowa. I work for a corporation that requires me to watch videos... one of them is on sexual harrassment policy, and the other one involves, to a large degree, instruction on how NOT TO EMBARASS the company in public. The video says for instance, don't go to a party and get drunk while wearing company apparel...and there were many other instructions.
Almost all of what Bo does is public.
When he acts this way... I think people think to themselves... If I did that at work I would be fired.
Then they think maybe Bo should be treated the same.