I think we should look at the "public" bit as to why the fans don't appreciate what Bo did on the sideline vs. Iowa. I work for a corporation that requires me to watch videos... one of them is on sexual harrassment policy, and the other one involves, to a large degree, instruction on how NOT TO EMBARASS the company in public. The video says for instance, don't go to a party and get drunk while wearing company apparel...and there were many other instructions.
Almost all of what Bo does is public.
When he acts this way... I think people think to themselves... If I did that at work I would be fired.
Then they think maybe Bo should be treated the same.
I don't think any of us work in a position where competition fuels success to the point that it does for a college coach. I have no idea how I would handle myself on the sideline. If I can't handle watching the game in my living room without blowing a gasket (which often I can't) - I'm sure I'd have trouble coaching the current team of Huskers. However, I have no problem in the workplace, etc. I'm not sure that is an excuse for Bo, but I certainly know that comparing what he does, with what us corporate slaves do is not really apples-apples.
I personally don't have a huge problem with the blowup itself. I have more of a problem that it happens when he knows how negatively it's viewed. Bo's absolutely correct when he called out Ferentz. He went ballistic for a while during that game, yet the cameras gave it 4 seconds of play and we never heard a peep out of it. But Bo earned that camera time he gets. It's his own doing. Fair or not, it's because of repeated blowups. So it doesn't matter if the blowup is minor, or if everyone else does it...the fact is that Bo
can't do it. Yet he continues to. And that's what I have a problem with.