Yeah, so you are pro-choice.
I think the problem is, for pro lifers (anti-choicers) is that the marketing of this topic has been so perfectly executed that you feel if you admit you are pro-choice you are worried you will be called a baby killer.
It is odd because we don't see the same resistance on the topic of the death penalty. People against the death penalty don't usually go "but"...they just say "I would rather have them locked up for life"
But for abortion, the pro lifers, almost always, say "but"...
It would all be so much easier if pro lifers that used the "but" would just say "Yeah, I hate abortion and I think all life should flourish but you know, there are extreme cases so I am pro choice"
Also, I don't want all life to flourish, serial killers, mass shooters, rapists, pedos...those people should all be executed.
I totally get what you are saying , I do, but when you add in the "but" you are pro choice.
Now, if you don't add in the but and say "no abortion ever, EVER" you are pro life.