I wrote this in the Kendall Bussey thread, but the same should apply for Daishon Neal and all of us who worry about this sort of stuff. When it comes to college recruiting, jobs, women, cars, restaurant menus, or whatever else, it is always wise to have a back-up plan:
If Pelini and the staff are smart, they are keeping a strong list of other RBs to be in contact with in case we lose Bussey's commitment. It doesn't mean we aren't committed to him.
If the AD is smart, he's got a list of coaching candidates already in case Pelini leaves or needs to be fired. It doesn't mean the AD isn't currently committed to Pelini.
If you are smart, you keep a look out for job opportunities that might be better than the one you have. It doesn't mean you aren't committed to your current job.
If Kendall Bussey Jr is smart, he is going to take a look at the opportunities that are available to him and take advantage of the only time in his life when he gets to make these visits and make such an important decision. It doesn't mean he's not coming to NU.
Just relax.