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The kid wants to come to Nebraska. That is his best decision in his mind. The fact that his family is forcing him to go to a place he doesn't want to isn't what is best for the kid. That's the point.
To add....His parents will likely be responsible for travel expenses (not just to games). They are in charge of moving the kid. They are in charge of getting him home for Summer and Winter breaks....they are "ultimately" in charge of making sure he is adjusting well on his own. His parents should have a say. I talked with my parents about where I went to school, I wanted to go to Hawaii, they had a reason to disagree.
I EXPECT my kids to include me in a college decision, unless they are 100% independent. Not many college kids are, kinda the reason they are going to college...
I'll add my 2 cents. My opinion is based solely on what I've read here.
Your post has merit, but I think its an apples and oranges comparison.
Why would he commit to us this late in the process (per credible contributors to this site), only to have his family say no? Too piss off daddy? I'm not biting. Commiting to NU without his "family's" approval (and this late) would seem to contradict that his "family" was involved in the decions making throughout the recruitment process. Why him committing to NU NOW seems to be a problem for his family is the unanswered question that has people annoyed. And based on earlier posts, its not a leap to think that the answer has to do with bias/reasons that are dishonest.
Edit: Looks like BBB XII summed it up well.