Really?
So if he was your son you'd deny him the enjoyment of a once in a lifetime occurrence? Rather selfish of you!!
No coach, No Parent, No Fan base should ever deny a player to enjoy the process. Rather all should support the young man in his adventure and hope he makes the best decision based on his experience and guidance both from the parents and the staffs of the uni of choice. My hope is, he takes every trip he can. Why, because once he announces well... his travels (for pure pleasure) will be at his dollar. Enjoy the process young man!! Be Safe, Be Smart but have fun and enjoy it!