The abortion question is such a drag. I see everyone's point of view and I find it easy to agree with and disagree with each side. I don't want abortion, but I think it should be safely available if necessary. What "necessary" is and when it becomes murder is the problem.
The signs you see out in the world, "Abortion: One dead, one wounded" are true, at least from my experience. A couple of close friends had a crazy night many years ago, and the woman got pregnant. They were not going to stay together, they were young & had no plans for a baby, and they got an abortion. I don't think they saw each other two times after that, and then just went their separate ways, after years of friendship and dancing around the dating question. I'll never forget the tears on each side, the tears on my side, the conversations about keeping it, letting it up for adoption, the abortion, the secrecy, none of it. I'd never want anyone to go through that again.