I agree, wins are important, but for me it's just being competitive (from which wins will come).
I'm sick to death of seeing lackluster Husker teams get blown out by teams that should be our peers. I'm sick of seeing teams like 2017 Minnesota or 2015 Purdue run roughshod over us. I want to see an offense that has fire in their eyes, and an attacking, aggressive defense.
What I most want to see, in all aspects of the game, is a team that has an identity. They know who/what they are, what they're about, and they attempt to inflict that on their opponent. That's what being competitive is, to me. No kid grows up wanting to "take what the defense gives us," or grows up wanting to play a prevent defense their entire college career. They want to smash someone, whether they're an offensive lineman or a Safety.
It seems like with Bo's mishmash offense and bend-but-don't break defense, and whatever the hell Langsdorf and/or Banker/Diaco are doing, they're putting our kids in a passive mode. Winning football isn't passive, it's aggressive, predatory, dictatorial. It's no wonder kids have been disinterested in games when the schemes they're required to adhere to are boring AF.