I don't even know you guys...

Bucky said:
Sam Spade said:
Bucky said:
That sucks Sam, I hope it works out for you and if it doesn't I'm sure you'll find someone better than a person who would dump a guy via text message.
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Heard that! If she wasn't going through all this other stuff I would have already kicked rocks... But I'm just worried she's overwhelmed and over thinking things.

I also feel like an idiot talking about this to strangers... But f#*k it.
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No worries, you're not an idiot for venting. We're all strangers here and we all vent and share. I've been where you are now, it's the pits but it can help to get it out there and anonymity can make that easier.

Is she talking at all to you? I can understand the worry but with what she's got going on maybe it will pass.
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She is not. She made a list in a text of things I was and wasn't doing that was making her doubt things... I essentially proved to her that I had been working on those things and she never wrote back... My cousin says I probably made her realize her mistake, but that could be her just trying to make me feel better..

 
Kick her bitchy-a$$ to the curb and find a new girl. Save yourself some a$$ pain and find someone will accept you for who you are to include your faults. My ex-wife tried to "change" me and it created a ton of problems between us hence the "ex" referral. My current wife is the complete polar opposite and our relationship is great.

I have zero-tolerance for women who want to "change" their man for the "better". b!^@h! I am who I am so f'ing accept it and deal with it or take your pu&&y tears and get to steppin'....biatch

 
HuskerfaninOkieland said:
Kick her bitchy-a$$ to the curb and find a new girl. Save yourself some a$$ pain and find someone will accept you for who you are to include your faults. My ex-wife tried to "change" me and it created a ton of problems between us hence the "ex" referral. My current wife is the complete polar opposite and our relationship is great.

I have zero-tolerance for women who want to "change" their man for the "better". b!^@h! I am who I am so f'ing accept it and deal with it or take your pu&&y tears and get to steppin'....biatch
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Women want to change (or fix) their man

Men want their woman to not change (their appearance)

 
NUance said:
Sorry to hear that. If it's any consolation, for every girlfriend I broke up with, I always landed a better gf the next time around.

You might try acting like like the break-up is no big deal or anything. If she thinks it doesn't bother you she'll eventually come back. Then, even if you don't want to take her back, you can at least enjoy the make-up sex for a few days before *you text* dump her for good.
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Hey we can play that BS too.

 
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If someone isn't mature enough to end a relationship personally, regardless of how long it's been going on, then they're really not worth your time. I'm sorry to hear about this, though.

 
Women can be some cold hearted B$tches.

I saw the worst of them when I was active duty, it's amazing what they think they can do when a guy is deployed.

Glad your moving on man, she sounds a little too crazy.

 
Sam Spade said:
But I need to vent.

I just got dumped through a text message because we "weren't at the same place in our lives.". I liked this one too... Hopefully it's just some pms coupled with the stress of her aunt dying and her work stressing her out lately.
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Sam Spade said:
But I need to vent.

I just got dumped through a text message because we "weren't at the same place in our lives.". I liked this one too... Hopefully it's just some pms coupled with the stress of her aunt dying and her work stressing her out lately.
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Just like street cars Sam. Another one comes along every 15 minutes.

T_O_B

 
Sam Spade said:
But I need to vent.

I just got dumped through a text message because we "weren't at the same place in our lives.". I liked this one too... Hopefully it's just some coupled with the stress of her aunt dying and her work stressing her out lately.
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You are in a good place. She is obviously clueless (probable cause, too many hair care products). You're lucky, SS, FTB.

T_O_B

 
a little advice i got from a old biker way back in the day , no matter where you are in this country a days ride will expose you to millions of new single wimminz, and you wanna get choked up over one you already had??

 
HuskerfaninOkieland said:
Kick her bitchy-a$$ to the curb and find a new girl. Save yourself some a$$ pain and find someone will accept you for who you are to include your faults. My ex-wife tried to "change" me and it created a ton of problems between us hence the "ex" referral. My current wife is the complete polar opposite and our relationship is great.
I have zero-tolerance for women who want to "change" their man for the "better". b!^@h! I am who I am so f'ing accept it and deal with it or take your pu&&y tears and get to steppin'....biatch
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Hate to break it to the OP but this is the way to go. Any woman who is abrupt or breaks up with you via text ain't worth it man. Been there, done that. Move on. Watch movies that make you laugh listen to good music surround yourself with friends pickup new hobbies. Hang around or with girl (friends) who'll attract other outside women to you. The options are limitless. Only one way to go and that's forward. If you do this, she will realize she messed up. By that time you'd have already moved on and it won't matter. You COULD use her for sex then dump her and dump her fast only after you tell her, "Pull your underwear over your head and go f#*k yourself."

 
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